The people of Sumatra have in general strong traditions and religions. They very much appreciate visitors that respect their way of life. Small changes in your western behavior can make a big difference. Here are some tips for you on how to "behave":

• Placing hands on the hips is a sign of anger or arrogance.
• It is rude to place one's feet in a way that the soles are facing another person.
• Don't throw things to anyone. It is more polite to hand it over directly, even if it involves moving yourself a bit.
• Men touching men and women touching women are common and completely normal; but touching between the sexes is rarely done in public.
• Western style swimsuits are considered outrageous in less touristy areas. Near villages and when locals are around, please be modest. You can always ask a local if you are unsure.
• When visiting a home, don't forget to take off your shoes.
• Avoid visiting Muslim homes at prayer times.
• Always use your right hand when receiving and giving things.
• Use only the right hand to eat food.
• In Indonesia you will be treated according to how you dress.
• If you visit a Government office, "dress up". Use long trousers, shirt with a collar and shoes. You will gain a lot in respect and service.

A FEW USEFUL TIPS

• The meaning of "just a moment" can be frustrating when waiting for buses for hours. It is just a way to talk. Have a coffee instead.
• After having been asked, "Where do you come from?" "Where are you going?", "How old are you?", "Are you married?" etc. about ten times a day it is easy to get irritated. Just remember it is only an expression of friendliness.
• Often in the countryside locals ask for presents or souvenirs. Don’t take it too seriously and don't become embarrassed. It is more just a way of talking.
• When asking for the way, you will always get help, even if they don't know! Always ask several people in order to get an average direction.